Kitchen build weeks 2 & 3

Plastering, deliveries and decoration

Plastering was the main focus of week two, and the amount of plastering needed meant this had a knock-on effect of when the installation of the kitchen units could begin. More plaster works were needed than anticipated. Once the ancient backing paper was removed from the walls in the new kitchen it revealed their true condition, which meant another three walls needed to be plastered. The builders attempted to remove the old artex ceiling, but they soon discovered that if they did that it would mean damaging the old lath and plaster. It was important to us to keep the coving that ran around the perimeter of the ceiling in the new kitchen, as it was one of the original features that had attracted us to the house when we bought it. So the builders managed to come up with a solution to save both the old ceiling and coving, whilst also covering up the hideous artex, by over-boarding the centre.

new kitchen ceiling is overboarded and skimmed

We took out the door that went into the back porch to open up the room but when the builders took the door frame out they discovered there was no lintel – the only thing holding the doorway up was the wooden doorframe itself!

We took out the door and doorframe to open up the room

Due to the extra plastering that was needed it meant that our the delivery of our kitchen units had to be delayed until Tuesday of the following week.

By the end of week three though, we could see the beginnings of some real progress and the shape of our new kitchen. All our new appliances arrived, along with a multitude of boxes, and the new units started to be installed. We chose our quartz worktops which will be templated at the end of week four and hopefully installed the following week. We also finalised our paint choices and a whitewash was applied to both rooms to cover up the old paint.

The last few weeks though have been plagued by wet weather and high winds as three different storms hit the UK in three consecutive weekends. Luckily for us, only a small part of the job is outside – moving the drains over – but this meant that we are waiting for dry weather for out patio to be re-grouted and our outside wall repaired.

Outside tap is moved over to allow for new drainage

Next week the installation of the kitchen units should be finished along with the second fix of electrics. We will then enter into the final phase of he project when the new floors and doors are installed. We are itching to get back and plan where to put everything!

Kitchen Build Week 1- no going back now

Stripping out, electrics and plumbing

As 2019 rolled into 2020 it suddenly dawned on us that we wouldn’t have long left until our building work started. We needed to get organised. We spent our weekends sorting out, clearing out, chucking out and slowly started packing. We finalised the kitchen design (and in the process spent yet more money). An old bookcase went to the tip, our coffee table went back to its original owners from five years before, Ben utilised Facebook marketplace and sold our kitchen table and chairs and beloved grey sofa. My parents came bearing boxes and we packed, packed and packed. The whole of our downstairs was moved to our front lounge and we packed a suitcase and moved in with Ben’s parents.

Hallway floor taken up. We will have the same floor running the whole of the downstairs apart from the front lounge

The end of the first week has now taken place and what a transformation! In the space of one day the builders had completely stripped both rooms back to their bare bones. Original flooring and walls were revealed – there was no going back now.

Old kitchen which will become a study/utility room

By the end of Friday the first fix of electrics were in and plumbing installed. Everything seemed to go quite smoothly, and fingers’ crossed, only a few hiccups. As we were moving the kitchen to a new room it meant we had to move drainage and water pipes as well, something that proved a bit tricky, but luckily our builder had put enough in the budget to allow for it. An old doorway was removed from our old kitchen into the porch to give us more space. Once they’d taken the door frame out they realised that there was no lintel so that was another unexpected item.

Opening up old doorway into back porch

Next week sees the arrival of the plasterer. They will also do the first coat of paint. Our American fridge freezer – which I am so excited about, as it is massive (so big I can probably fit in it) and we will give us ice and filtered water on tap – arrives on Thursday and the kitchen will be delivered on Friday, ready for installation the following week.

Old kitchen

Our next big decision is choosing what paint colours to have. The kitchen units will be dark grey and there are no windows at that end of the room, so will we need to have a light colour on the walls. On Saturday we took ourselves off to a decorating centre – who knew there were so many different shades of white? But once we have chosen the paint for the kitchen, should we have the same in the office/utility room? Ben is set on having a dark grey feature wall on the wall where his desk will be, so the other walls will need to compliment. We came back from the decorating centre armed with six tester pots to add to the three that we already had tried previously – this was going to be tough decision!

Backing paper is removed in the new kitchen. How many layers of paint do you think has been taken off?

We have already seen how much has been accomplished in a week so we are so excited to see what will happen in the coming weeks!

This room will become our new kitchen. It will give us so much more wall space and will mean we can have a proper kitchen diner

Kitchen dreams

After over a year of planning (and going through multiple versions of the plan, I might add) the time has finally come for our kitchen transformation to take place. It feels like the last year has been gearing up to this moment.

Three and a half years ago we moved into our four bed semi by the sea. When we bought it, we were slightly naive in thinking that all the house would need was a lick of paint but the new shutters and new deep pile carpet were covering up a multiple of issues. It feels like for the past few years we’ve been on one treadmill of fixing it. We’ve fixed the roof, re-pointed the chimney, fixed damp, decorated, landscaped the garden, fixed damp again, installed new gas pipes for the gas fire, insulated the loft, rewired, decorated again, installed a solid roof to the conservatory, added built-in bookcases in the lounge, decorated again, fixed yet more damp…But, despite all it’s issues and being a virtual money pit we love the house. It’s spacious, has a good-sized garden, is two minutes from the beach and station. We knew anything we did do to it would add value. Redoing the kitchen, though, was always a long-term goal and something we didn’t think we’d do for several years.

Original kitchen – annoying pinch-point between cupboard and fridge

Our original plan was to build an extension which would contain one huge open plan space plus a study- the house already had come with planning permission to build an L-shaped extension, so we knew that what we wanted to do would be granted. However, the more I looked in to the more I came to realise how expensive that would be. It would mean remortgaging the house if we were to that, something, that realistically wouldn’t be possible for a long while. So we decided to put it on hold but our conversations always turned back to that dream kitchen.

Original kitchen -the wall we wanted to knock down was where the hob is

Then in 2018 I became ill and was pretty much housebound for several weeks trying to fight a cellulitis infection. To fight the boredom I started sketching out plans for the kitchen and worked out that maybe we didn’t need an extension after all – perhaps we had enough space in the existing house to achieve what we wanted. To get me out of the house and ‘cheer me up’ Ben took me to a kitchen showroom and on a whim we booked them to measure up and create a design for us. It was clear we definitely couldn’t make much improvement on the kitchen in the space it was. We were fighting two massive windows and an awkward doorway. That’s when the manager suggested we move the kitchen to the adjacent room and knock the wall down between the two rooms.

Original kitchen

Moving the kitchen to the adjacent room (which was open plan to the conservatory) was something we’d thought about before but we’d dismissed it as that would mean moving the drainage supply, which we thought would be costly. The manager did a good sales job on us though and convinced us that this was the only way to go.

Second lounge will become our new kitchen open to the conservatory

On a whim we put a deposit down on a kitchen and booked in fitting for September 2019. However, We obtained a quote through their builder and were shocked at the price. The wall that needed knocking down was a supporting wall so would need an RSJ. It wasn’t the few hundred pounds which the kitchen designer had told us but would be tens of thousands. Therein ensued months of obtaining further building quotes, and visits to an alternative kitchen supplier to try and understand if that was a reasonable price. Another quote came in and it was even more than the original one, possibly even double! I remember crying when I opened that email! Back to the drawing board. Luckily we were able to get our deposit back. The September start date would need to be delayed, which was just as well as we were due to get married six weeks before.

Second lounge – will become our new kitchen.

Ben then suggested that maybe we didn’t need to actually knock the wall down – perhaps we could still have our kitchen diner, although not as big. We’d still move the kitchen but then the old kitchen could become a study/snug. This would mean sacrificing the massive kitchen island and breakfast bar that I’d been fantasising about since I was about 12 but it would mean we could do the work in the next couple of years rather than in the next twenty.

This will become our new kitchen diner

With this in mind we asked our kitchen designer to draw up a new plan and ploughed on looking for builders. The new plan would solve all our storage and worktop dilemmas and would still be semi open-plan and I even managed to squeeze in a peninsular which was a compromise to not having an island. Finally we managed to find a builder, through recommendations of friends and it looked like it might be possible! By this point though, we were hurtling towards our wedding and we knew we had to focus on the plans for that, so we made the choice to delay until 2020. A February 2020 start date was secured.

It’s Been a While…

It’s been a while since my last blog post. So much has happened since then, and the cliches of ‘never finding the time’ to write and ‘life running away with itself’ have certainly been true.

Push yourself, because no one else is going to do it for you.

In the space of a few months I’ve planned a wedding (and that wedding has now happened…more on that later); met with seven builders and two kitchen companies for the work we want doing on our house  and changed jobs and company – 6 weeks before getting married. Up until a couple of weeks before the wedding, when the heatwave arrived and it became too bearable to even move, I was also working out for at least 30 mins every day.

The best day xxx

Our wedding was in the planning for over eighteen months. Before I embarked on it I never anticipated the time and energy it would take up, especially in the final couple of months leading up. We had several spreadsheets on the go, to-do lists coming out of our ears, a multitude of questions to ask and to be answered. Our house became like a wedding warehouse and I’d definitely over -ordered on flipflops, which came apparent when three boxes arrived and they had to go off to my parents’ house to be stored. We had last-minute stressed and panics, sometimes over such trivial things. Six weeks before the wedding I also changed jobs and company so that also didn’t help with my stress levels as I tried to appear as calm as possible on the surface but inside was a completely different story. There was the day, about a fortnight before the wedding that I had an almost complete breakdown over the fact that I’d forgotten to incorporate a sparkler arch (and we’d already bought said sparklers months before) in the schedule and there was no time to do it…but in the end it worked out well and we had a lovely day and both overcame our fears of public speaking. However, it went far too quickly and all those months of planning ended in a blur and we definitely didn’t get to speak to as many people as we’d have liked. Now we are on to the next thing to plan – our honeymoon to South Africa at the end of October.

An obstacle is often a stepping stone

When we first discussed the plans to renovate our house and move the kitchen to an adjacent room I naively agreed to pencil in the start date with the kitchen company we were going to use, to be in the middle of September. I am so glad that Ben put his foot down and said we should delay until next year. At the time I couldn’t see the point – I just wanted it done but the extra time is not only giving us the chance to save more money but the breathing space too. It has also meant that we have had the time to deliberate on our plans. I was well aware that the actual building process would be stressful – I have seen enough housing renovation programmes to understand that – but what I didn’t think would be so stressful was actually finding a builder to do the work – and mean that we’d need to sell a vital organ to do it. From December to June we saw seven builders and a structural engineer – but only four of the builders actually provided us with quotes. Two of them came out with astronomic figures that nearly made us both cry and it seemed to take an age to get anything out of them at all. We also changed kitchen companies and wrestled with numerous plans. And, in January we had our conservatory roof replaced – phase one of the work. We finally found a builder for the kitchen and have a draft plan in place – the build is scheduled for February 2020 and so I expect that after the honeymoon we will then turn our attention back to the building work.

In between all this I have been learning to live with my Lymphoedema. The exercise I have been doing has definitely helped but I do notice that I get tired more than usual. I have been trying to wear my compression stockings every day but when it is hot that’s just not possible. Once a month I’ve been having manual lymphatic drainage massage to help drain off the excess fluid from my legs. I’m due back at the Lymphoedema clinic in a couple of weeks so it will be interesting to see if there has been any improvement to the swelling. Finding nice shoes that will fit me is an ongoing uphill battle but I’ve discovered that quite a few shops now sell shoes for wide feet or I buy shoes in a bigger size, but that means I have to get insoles for my ‘normal’ foot. It took me ages to find my wedding shoes and ended up going with Rainbow as they sold wedding shoes in wide fit – but in the end the shoes I bought were standard fit, something I was over the moon about!

Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have or do.

Brian Tracy

Since becoming ill last year I have made a conscious and perhaps also unconscious effort to grab life by both hands and make life as busy as possible. My mum also became ill in May – something that really shook me up as she has always been so healthy – so that has also spurred me and made me realise how short life is and to embrace it while you have the chance. As well as our own wedding we’ve had many celebrations this year – one of my best friends got married in May and in the same month Ben’s older sister turned forty so we have had many celebrations around that. We have seen friends and reconnected with family, been to shows and had weekends away.

When I think back to all we have both achieved over the last few months – I can’t quite believe it, and the year is not yet out and we already have so many plans in the pipeline. I just hope that 2020 will be as busy and fun – although no doubt there will be stressful times along the way!

Starting Somewhere

I’ve never blogged before. I don’t know why, I used to love writing as a child. Every spare moment I’d spend making up stories. I had so many in my head that as soon as I started writing something down I’d want to start on another. I have a whole folder of first page stories written in my childish scrawl. When I hit my early teens I discovered that I could use the family computer to write my stories (this was the age before iPhones, iPads and even laptops after all…) and so my writing folder of unfinished stories became an electronic one. When I was fifteen I wrote my first novel. It was pretty trashy and in no way will it win any awards, but I’m pretty proud of it anyway – despite all the dodgy sex scenes – what an imagination I had! My love of writing followed me to university, so much so that the course I took – English and Creative Writing – meant I was writing several times a week – and being graded for it! My third year was spent not only sweating over my 10,000 word English dissertation but over my 10,000 word creative writing piece. I literally lived and breathed writing. Then I left university and real life hit. I started writing some bits and pieces and even laid down the foundation of a novel, which I hope someday I will finish, but I couldn’t find the focus or the head space to do as much as I used to. Every year I said to myself that I would start writing properly again this year but it never happened. Grown up life took over I suppose and the time I once had to write got dragged in to all sorts of different directions.

Occasionally I’ve thought about blogging but didn’t think I’d have anything interesting to say. Who’d be interested in reading about my life after all? But this year is going to be a big year – I’m getting married, I’m on a mission to loose weight, we’re renovating our house and going on the holiday of a lifetime – South Africa. I’ve even signed up to be a Beachbody Coach – it’s just for the discounts at the moment but who knows where it will lead me?

Occasionally I’ve thought about blogging but didn’t think I’d have anything interesting to say. Who’d be interested in reading about my life after all? But this year is going to be a big year – I’m getting married, I’m on a mission to loose weight, we’re renovating our house and going on the holiday of a lifetime – South Africa. I’ve even signed up to be a Beachbody Coach – it’s just for the discounts at the moment but who knows where it will lead me?

So here goes. I’m determined to make 2019 THE year. Hope you enjoy reading this blog as much as I enjoy writing it. x